Assalamualaikum everyone ^_^
I am Haidar and its been a very long time I’m not in this
blog, so this time I would like to share my story with you guys. Today’s topic
would be 19 YO GOALS. That’s because in a couple days ahead would be my 19th
birthday and I’m so excited for that, not because I will probably get much
gifts from my friends or there will be many surprises. But, I’m so excited
because now I’m a truly woman. Although
not really a woman I think, but yeahhh I have to be more mature this time, no
playing anymore, I need to be focus on my life ahead.
I was telling you guys in this blog about last year or 2
years ago that my big goals in 19 would be “Marriage”. I was so obsessed with
marriage in a young age which is that was my mom did when she’s 19, even she’s
got me on 19. But as you see now I’m single, and still a student in a
university. Well actually I had some guys who want to marry me soon but I was refusing
them because of several reasons. First, I don’t want to marry my friend, or
someone who I already know them personally. I just want someone that I just
know a year ago or maybe couple months ago. Also, you know it’s kind of weird
when you marrying your friend or your ex-boyfriend.
Second, I don’t want to marry a local people or a man, who
has the same country as me, I loved to learn something new like new cultures,
new languages or customs. Also, I loved to travel a lot with my future husband
from other country just like you travel together with a man who has different
in many aspects but you love them so much because of the differences. You know
it’s a kind of unique when you have your own little family with different
cultures.
Third, my family is a family that have many cultures on it,
which is I have many cousins who are from many region in my country. And I
think it looks very awesome and really cool that your family knows many
languages and customs. As you know Indonesia has more than 300 kinds of
vernacular languages which is I just know less than 10 languages :D. it’s pretty
cool when you speak with your family with different languages for example, my
mom is from Java and she will speaks Java with my brother and my Dad is from
Ternate island and he will speaks Ternate language with my grandma and grandpa,
my aunt marrying a man from Tulehu village and she will speaks with Tulehu
accent with her husband, and many more. So, I want my little family like my
family now :D
Forth, I want my next generation to live in Mecca or Medina
in the future so they can be saving from the Dajjal’s fitnaa. And I want my
children’s mother tongue will be Arabic which I’m so obsessed to learn it now
:D so you can guess now that I have a plan to marry a middle east man hahahaha
:D but of course the intelligent one and religious.
But, looking for a Middle East man who has the same desire
of obsession is not easy. Even, my friends always say this thing to me “it will
be so hard to find the man you want to marry with those criteria, if Allah has
decided your destiny to marry a local man then you have to face that” and I
just reply them with “well I will pray to God to fulfill my goals, as we know
that if we ask Allah to give, He will give as long as we ask through pray and
work hard on it”. So I think it’s pretty easy because I have Allah that will give
anything I ask including this goal :D as “Man Jadda wa Jadda (whoever work hard
will get what they want” and I’m very sure that if I work hard to find my
man, I will find him through Allah. J
Thank you so much for listening to my biggest goal in 19 yo
which is so sad that I have to delaying it because I have some stuffs to do
with my college :D I hope you enjoy your life and never stop setting your goals
and don’t forget to work hard on it and also ask your God to fulfill it ;)
Wassalamualaikum.
